CHECK OUT THE INTERVIEW THAT GOT NANCY IN HOT WATER!

[Nounoune]

At the risk of sounding judgemental I have to say this. The thing in the article that disturbed me the most was the fact that "she admitted to being with men for money" or just to get what she wanted. My biggest problem with that is that the "young and pretty" in Haiti do this for all the wrong reasons. As opposed to being with men for money to get an education, (go to some school to learn something or at the very least feed themselves and families)...They do it for MATERIAL possessions, a pair of designer sunglasses, jewelry, wrist watches, and even cell phones, and phone cards. When she said she is young and beautiful, This was exactly what came to mind. "Use what you got... to get what you don't got". I don't think that this is an example for the young and beautiful in our country to take note of.

In general beauty fades with time...then what happens next??? THAT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE (both in doing it and in admitting to it) Back Up needs to understand that the fact alone that she gave this interview, and the fact alone that she has done so many outrageous and overzealous acts in the past proves that she has not grown out of her ways nor mentality. What Nancy hopes to have attained in Back Up is just another asset for her to use for her personal gain. SUPERSTARISM The band in turn was profiting from the fact that she was "young and beautiful"...it has it's prices,rewards and disadvantages.

Considering her behavior, and demeanor...she has not changed, and probably never will, no matter how much they nag and bother her to do so. There is a haitian expression..."Mennen koulev la se youn...fe'l chita se deux" It's too late now to get her to chill! SO either they take her as she is or they

Nounoune

[jeanVALjean]

As is often done in these controversial discussions, different people find different points on which to elaborate which all in itself is great, but as usual it causes us to steer away from the original point.

It goes without saying that few people would ever endorse or even remotely condone what Nancy has done in the past or has revealed in the interview, including those of us who know the sad reality of our country.

But allow me to truncate the debate and re-shift the focus back to the rushed suspension decision made by the band under ostensible pressure from panicked sponsors. How in the world can anyone justify that-given the fact that these people (to date) have greatly benefited from the very openly sexual behavior and attitude that they suddenly find so "shocking" and abhorent? Where was the "indignation" and "moral outrage" before?
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[angelov54]

Thank you Hipchick for seeing my point!!! Gen moun ki ka we li pa fe sens pou yo suspann li men se imaj li sponsor yo gendwa ap defann!!! In the USA, where people are more open-minded, people get suspended for less than dat, so I dont c why all this outrage about the suspension!!!
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[Redji-Vice]

En réalité...
-Konbyen nan nou ki tap “cool konsa pou di bagay sa yo pa grav” si sete yon ti soeur nou or yon ti cousine nou ki ta nan situation sa yo?
-Konbyen nan nou ki tap dakò (like you pretend it) si yon partner nou ta bay yon interview konsa?
Anpil nan nou se aktè nou ye: nou cool, nou san problem, nou "open-minded" tout autant se pa nou kap face yon situation

A vrai dire, gen anpil jeune moun konsa “timafi” nan la rue a: absence parents nan vi ti moun yo, delinquence juvenile, raisons econmiques etc… se tout bagay sa yo ki cause mode de situation sa yo. Et ceci se pa seulman en Haiti, nan lot peyi (gro peyi s’il vous plait) genyen jeune ki lagué tèt yo nan bagay sa, piga nou pran pretexte se situation Haiti a “klorox” ki fè jeune yo aji konsa. Nan America comme exemple, 60 à 70% jeune fille ki ap mennen vi sa yo (prostituée nan la rue, sa kap danse nan club naked, sa ki nan magazine porno etc...) yo entre laj 18 à 25 ans.
Yo just pat gen yon bon baz education kote parent yo te prezan pou ede yo pa chwazi rout sa yo.
D’ailleurs Nancy di li clairement “li nan lari a depi laj 13 ans”, fòk nou konprann se pa forcement lavi du ki cause situation sa yo.

Pawòl ki nan interview sa yo tres choquant, peut-etre Nancy te ka konprann après yon tel interview li pral plus “superstar”, but en realite se pa vre. Ok nou tout te ka gin ti fanmi nou ki nan move vi sa yo, se normal pou situation Nancy yo kapab fè nou mal, but pa gen moyen pou yon moun fier de sa li di yo en pensant que Nancy gen kouraj pou pale konsa or pawòl li yo kapab yon bon exemple pou jeune yo…

1-Quelque soit situation que yon moun trouve li, pa gen excuse/rezon pou li gen 2 patnè en meme temps. Nòmalman tout moun gen 2 pieds, men sa permet yo maché nan 2 rout en meme temps. Ok "X" pakab ede moun lan economiquement, or bay bon randman or moun lan pa imajine yon futur avec li, si se bagay sa yo ki important pou moun sa en question; se kite "X" epi pran "Y" no matter what...
Se principe lan, se bon exemple lan. Tout moun ki aji contrairement, se pa yon compliment men se yon honte.

2-Anpil moun fè erreur nan lavi yo, alors li toujou bon pou moun partaje erreur yo fè surtout nan jeunesse yo ak lot kap vini pou yo kapab evite tonbe nan vye situation, but pawòl Nancy yo nan interview sa plus sanble ak moun kap preche lòt moun men kisa pou yo fè si bagay yo difisil au lieu pou bay yo bon exemple pou yo pa tonbe nan aktivite sal sa yo, quelque soit jan bagay yo ta du nan lavi yo demain...
Pawol sa yo pa gen bon exemple a suivre dutout, au contraire yo fè li parèt lèd anpil.

-Backup kapab jujé yon interview konsa (moun que Nancy prezante public la li ye a) kapab bay djaz la yon mauvaise image.

Let’s get our head on our shoulders, at least for once… “Nap viv nan yon monde depourvu de bon sens et de valeur morale”, jodi a yon moun kapab subi gro pression pran anpil panik si li kritike yon bagay ki pa bon. For example 20, 30 years ago it was ok to say “being gay/lesbian is a shame conduct”, but today it’s very dangerous to make such declaration, yon moun ka nan gro cho si li di bagay sa yo pa bon en public…

Verite yo fok nou di yo, malheureusement anpil moun peur pou yo pa trété yo de: “pa eklere, ou pa a la mode etc…” yo oblije dakò avec certaines choses or toleré yo, but deep down inside… yo pa alèz vré, unless yap mennen yon vi reziyé.
Pa chèché soulajé kè nou nan bay tèt nou manti, paske nou toujou regret sa pi devan!

“Nancy n’a que 20 ans”, donc sa explike “fougue jeunesse” li ki cause li betize anpil nan interview sa. Et de plus, Ticket Magazine en publiant yon interview pareil pa sanble yon magazine kap éde jeunnesse la, au contraire yo expozé/ankourajé jeunesse la ak maladi yo ka pran nan mode de situation sa yo. Pawòl sa yo pa benefique pou jeunesse la dutou!


PS:"Tout bagay mal se bagay mal", djaz la te ka dakò ak fason li te konn ap danse yo etc... epi yo chwazi suspend or revoke li pou pawòl sa yo. Situation sa yo rele "revers de la medaille". There's not a right/proper time to stop something bad".
Se ipokrizi sa lavi a sere pou tout moun (jeune, sipèsta etc...) kap agi yon fason tet chaje. A N'importe quel moment yo ka stop yo pou bagay yap fè ke lòt moun ka jujé pa bon...
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[Haitianone]

As expected, but there one thing in there Nancy talked about being in relationships with a married man, maybe someone can correct me, maybe that is the reason then again sounds like a BS excuse other then that the article is decent.
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[wallywal]

to keep it real, i understand why she got suspended, i don't agree with it but i understand it. she reveals some very personal stuff here that shouldn't have been reveals because of her status as a star, a sex symbol
whether we like it or not there are many people that after reading that interview facon yo gade nancy pral changer, they gonna look at her differently, that good girl image is gone and thats why i understand the suspension.
the other thing is that this is the reality of our society, its the cold hard truth
plain and simple et nou toute konin kijan haitien gin problem ak la verite