LADiES....Question for Ya'll !!!!!

[belchokola]

.......lets say you just hooked up with a new guy, fast forward a bit and you all are about to be intimate.


NOW.....do you

A be the first to go down on him
B wait for him to go down on you...and or suggest it
C have him go down on you and you DO NOT return the favor??
D BOTH of you skip oral for now

Thanks....and I look forward to reading the responses. This should be very interesting!!!
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[SIROMYEL]

option B for me. Afterwards, i'll return the favor when I feel it's right.

[KARAMEL]

[Timafi]

First of all, I would choose D; then as we go along I would choose C.
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[KREOLA]

I think you've missed one option

Since this relationship is fairly new, we should both go DOWTOWN & 69TH

"B" would be my second choice, but I would never suggest it

[belchokola]

NOTE TO THE FELLAS....

The reason why this was geared more towards females is for one reason.... I was talking to my girls and naturally sex came up anyhow...we got to talking about oral sex. And from that conversation it seems to me, as if the initial sexual encounter some women do NOT give head/go down on their lovers.

I wanted to find out more about this does it have validity? What do other females do? ....and different reasons why we women may do this? Or NOT do it?

I, in no way meant to exclude men out and greatly welcome answers from a male's perspective as well.


Thanks.
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[belchokola]

****I should also add....this question, or rather I, as the poster am taking into consideration that safe sex, and communication is discussed before one ventures into a sexual aspect of a relationship. Additionally, as the question states, there is no specific time frame in which you all may become intimate--everyone has differing opinions as to when and at what level he/she feels comfortable doing so.****

Thanks once again for the replies so far...I do look forward to many more.

Peace...
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[belchokola]

The first sexual encounter is almost always akward for a male or female. This I completely understand...expectations anticipation longing and all of that.

I do not recall ever goin down on a male on our initial encounter....unless I was drunk?!?!?!? Just kidding....

Anyhow...I generally skip the whole oral ordeal for a later time.
So my answer is D....but there have been times were he talked a good oral game and he just went down....who am I to stop him???
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[blackpearl]

IT DEPENDS ON THE MOOD MOST OF THE TIME IF THE FOREPLAY IS GREAT AND I M REALLY FEELING THE GUY I SOMETIMES DO NOT WAIT FOR THEM TO GO DOWN ON ME BECAUSE MOST GUY WILL DO A MUCH BETTER JOB AFTER YOU GIVE THEM A GREAT BLOWJOB ( THEY WILL TEAR THAT P*$$# UP) SO MY ANSWER IS A

[prisk]

I will have to go on A for that one.

I like to have some kind of control and kinda of initiate things too, so if it is fairly new, and I am on the mood, I will go first.
My second option would be maybe to suggest it.

I definitely dont want him to catch me when I am not on the mood, that is why I rather take the first step and show my intentions.
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