ENTRY #2: ARE MY PARENTS' VIEWS NECESSARILY MINE?

[zipgenel]

there are not koshered

now someone need to get their d@#k koshered before you f&*k the daughters of those racist peeps...

it's easy... call a rabbi, and have him boiled some water, and let your yoyo take a dive in the hot water, while rabbi prays, and then you're in business..

I'm in love with my antillean/haitian/carribbean women... my parents could not tell me jack if I wanted to date out of race...

I've dated many races... however I realize that it was just a phase... I really love my antillean/haitian/carribbean women...
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P.P.P= PIYAY POU PIPO
PIPO= PI HIGH PI WO

[wallywal]

i use to date women from different race and religion my parents did not have a problem with it and even if they did i would've not care because its my life my business who i date
i got my views they got theirs epi thats it sak pa kontan zafè yo

[Millé-Next !!!!!]

Good 1 DJ pam nan,

For me, I think I’m among the few from Haiti with open minded parents.
All they really required was respect, as long as we were happy they were pretty cool with our decisions but that came with a price, they would warn you about potential danger and let you be.

Now as a parent my self although it is still early, I want to be able to give my son the opportunity to savor the same perks.

I think you start running into the more detail problems with the older folks and when religion steps in. Parents at times act out of emotion and try to prevent their kids from making their own mistakes, which some times I now can comprehend was for the best.

It’s different in every family but for the most part the majority of Haitian parents would rather die than to have their kids not follow what they and when they say it.

Millé-NEXT
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AGRIKOL- mwen tande wap chache'm? Eh bien min mwen. Oh wi Millé-NEXT monté moun ou- al kwe sa salop, espes de mass-ici- Millé

Millé-NEXT- TOU TAN
MACAYA-.-.-.-.

[Gromosso]

Growing up, my parents kept me on a tight leech. It wasn't when I started attending college, that I gained my freedom. Ah, mwen REVOLTE.
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Si'w Pa Resan, Ou Pap Janm Alamod

[princessj]

My parents ( my Father in particular) damaged me with their oppressive back-wards way of life so badly that I still question my own actions to this day. I had to move out of their house because it was just to irrational and tense a situation for myself. They never physically abused me, but the emotional anguish my Father put me through for simple things like music, clothes, and free-will was brutal. Since I've had my own place though our relationship is definitely improving...I think realizes I am an adult finally.

Anyway Haitian parents are unrealistic in believing their children will inherently echo the beliefs passed down to them. We are not drones but living breathing people with our individual thought processes, ways of life, and systems of believe. The experiences we've lived through have created us not our parents. They gifted us with the physical body but our life-force is our own. We create our own karma...and part of that is how we live our lives. No one should dictate nor expect others to fall in line to their way of thinking.

As to the second part of DJKreyol's question, coming from a very religious family their primary concern has always been if the man in question was the follower of the Pentecostal faith...that and the bonus of being Haitian from a good family. But my parents would prefer me marry a nonHaitian man who is in the same faith as I to a Haitian man who isn't.

I personally would like to believe I am open to everyone...I actually go through phases where all I want is a Haitian man, then just rather be with Cubans (my favorite Hispanic culture), and once in a while Caucasian (Italians, French...European male not the typical USA) guys. I almost am rarely attracted to African American men, I'm not exactly sure why, if it's to disassociate with that culture and stand separate in my Afro-Latin identity or what but it took me a while to come to acknowledge that prejudice (and I do call it such) on my part.

But then again, if you are handsome with a sense of humor and career oriented I generally don't mind sharing a meal and a laugh...but when it comes to committing I get issues, like I know I'm SUPPOSE to marry Haitian, but I'm attracted to so many different types of men! Ah man...help me out here ladies!?!
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[Loveliyah]

My mother mother is very openminded! She'll be happy with whomever I bring home. She actually missed this Dominican dude I use to date. Till this day she reminds me that I messed up by going back to my baby daddy.

Daphnee, I side with you & Aesha. I just love my Haitian men...who else am I going to plogue with?
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If music be the food of love, play on!....Shakespeare

~~All you need is love, & Love is all I have!~~

[SIROMYEL]

I never dated a non-haitian, but I can imagine what my parents reactions would be.


My brother datd this columbian girl in college and brough her home one time. My mother said

"li pa sanble on move timoun non...but mwen pa ka pale avec li...li pa pale creyol mwne pa pale angle."

I started laughing when she said that. For her it was more of a communication issues than her nationality per se.

I'm sure she's happy now that my brother is back to hs haitian roots.

I had acousin who married a girl from peru and divorced her a couple of years later. My father said "

"depi'm te we manzel mwen te gen tan we moun sa yo pa t'ap rete. Koman ayisyen pral feret a on fanm san bouda san tete."

I was rolling laughing.

All in all, I have had suitors from other countries, but I was never interested enough to consider dating them. Maybe I am closed minded myself but I love my haitian men.

The way that me and my baby joke about haitians and the culture and how it wad growing up back home, I could never have had as many laughs. There's just a bond there that comes from us being from the same place.

But I a definitely not against people dating outside of their race.